Am I very idealistic when I call for the right kind of efforts at the right time and preferably every time from people?
I see Kiran (my wife) at her workplace, not obsessed with all the above but yet getting the right kind of responses from her people effortlessly, is that because she is of the fairer sex. Her being my wife, I can safely say that the sex does not matter. Actually, it never matters at all in any situation.
It is all about how much control we are able to achieve between our mind space and our environment, people and controlling factors.
I, after seeing my wife, have started to learn these small nuances of enjoying what I do without being obsessive. She calls me senile for what I am and that is a term I do not want linked to myself.
So, I am trying the path of Chillax!!